Your habitual way of
explaining bad events, your explanatory style, is more
than just words you mouth when you fail. It is a habit
of thought, learned in childhood & adolescence.
It is the hallmark of whether you are an optimist or
pessimist.
Dr. Martin Seligman, world distinguished psychologist
and researcher on optimism and resilience, University
of Pennsylvania |
The Challenge
Adversity is on the rise! A poll of
20,000 people worldwide reveals that 98% predict a more
difficult, changing, even chaotic future. Everyone faces
accelerating change and increasing levels of adversity.
We hear of wars, diseases, retrenchment, unemployment,
social unrest, family breakups, and the list goes on.
People are increasingly stretched. They deal with greater
uncertainty and change than ever before. Many feel ill-equipped
or suffer an unnecessary toll. Each day they live on
the edge.
The Opportunity
The key to success in such tumultuous
times is not only being able to make desired change,
but to sustain it in the face of adversity. The ultimate
key to thriving on adversity is to build your resilience
and it has to start even before adversity strikes you.!
Many
studies on resilience have established that it is the
level of our resilience - the ability to persevere and
adapt when things go awry - that determines our success
at work, the happiness and longevity of our relationships,
and the quality of our health. Indeed, more than any
other factors, resilience is what determines how high
we rise above what threatens to wear us down, from battling
an illness, to bolstering a marriage, to carrying on
after a national crisis. Contrary to popular belief,
the secret to resilience lies in accurate thinking,
not positive thinking. The tools and techniques in Resilience
Mapping ™ teach you to evaluate the impact of
your thinking on your emotions and behavior. It is not
what happens to you, but how you respond to what happens
to you, that has the greatest effect on your lives.
The years of accumulated research on
resilience indicates that the number-one roadblock to
resilience is not genetics, not childhood experiences,
not a lack of opportunity or wealth. The single most
significant obstacle to tapping our inner strength lies
with our cognitive style – our ways of looking
at the world and interpreting events that every one
of us develops from childhood.
Our cognitive styles may bias and colour
our perspectives, leading us to develop patterns of
behaviours that are often self defeating.
The
good news is that resilience can be learned and can
be increased. You can increase your resilience by understanding
your cognitive styles and developing skills to circumvent
them so that you can see the true causes of adversity
and its effects on your life.
This workshop on Resilience Mapping™
will help you increase your resilience with proven techniques
that are based on scientifically-validated research
conducted by some of the world’s renowned psychologists
& social scientists. Practicing the tools &
techniques in Resilience Mapping™ will result
in remarkable and immediate improvement in how you communicate,
make decisions, and navigate the "rough waters"
of life.
The Tools
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Defining Resilience |
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Why Resilience Matters Alot |
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What scientists and experts tell
us about resilience? |
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Self Discovery 1
Psychological Type and Resilience- Understanding
how you naturally or instinctively respond to adversity?
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Self Discovery 2
How Resilient Are You ? – Mapping Your Resilience
Quotient |
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Tools & Techniques for increasing
resilience |
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Resilience Thinking Skills –
Learn how to quickly change your counter-productive
thoughts into more resilient ones with immediate
results |
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Open a Resilience Account –
Learn how to leverage on your past victories and
accomplishments to boost your resilience |
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ABC Technique of Cognitive Restructuring
- Learn how to listen to your thoughts, identify
what you say to yourself when faced with an adversity,
and understand how your thoughts affect your feelings
& behaviours |
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Overcoming Limiting Beliefs –
Learn how to test the accuracy of your beliefs about
adversity and how to find solutions to them |
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Calming & Focusing –
Learn how to stay calm and focused when you are
overwhelmed by emotions or stress so you can concentrate
on the task ahead |
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Putting it all together: Outdoor
Experiential Learning @ Gunung Lambak, Johor |
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